Making her wait is controlling. Controlling is a sign of alcoholism. Alcoholism is an indication he could become lethal.
Wait for this guy? Huh?
Dear Doug:
My daughter, 21, never really had a boyfriend before she graduated from college. Suddenly, she moved out of our home (we've always been close) and into the house of a 45-year-old man whom she met playing on a sports team he coaches. When we asked to meet him, she said he would decide when. That was six months ago.
Although I attended several games, he not only hasn't said a word to me but also never even looked at me"even though he knows full-well who I am. My daughter says he is nice, but she admitted he let her sit for three hours after a job interview he drove her to because he had to rotate ...