Dear Doug: financial abuse commited by a son, an ex-husband and the parents, all likely alcoholics–but other columnists don’t even consider the idea.
In celebration of the end of Tax Season, I thought it appropriate to include several letters involving financial abuse of others.
Dear Doug:
When my 84-year-old mother returned home from the hospital two years ago after hip surgery, I asked my 40-year-old son, who hadn’t had a job for two years, to help her out (I work full-time, so couldn’t do everything she needs). He takes her shopping and to the doctor, but belittles her continuously. She pays all his bills, gives him spending money and even, apparently, bought him a new car. What should we do?
Signed,
Mother of an Elder Abuser
Dear Codependent,
Other columnists might suggest that you contact the National Center for Elder Abuse and talk to ...
