I’d like my husband to slow down…He’s a road terrorist!
Dear Doug: Road Terrorist
Dear Doug:
My husband drives as if he were crazed. While a superb driver, he is very aggressive and creates dangerous situations"with me and the kids in the car"that require excellent driving to pull out of. He seems to have a need to always be ahead of everyone else. I beg him to slow down and he gets angry with me for being upset, showing a lack of regard for my wishes and feelings. He drove all of us to a friend's a few days ago and we haven't spoken since. Am I asking too much of him?
Signed,
Terrified in the Shot-Gun Position
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Dear Codependent,
Other columnists might say that your husband sees his driving as an ...