Why the fact that alcoholics really do change is important.
Dear Doug: An addict in recovery
Dear Doug:
I dated a heavy drinker with a violent criminal history who repeatedly lied to and cheated on me. When I understood how deep his issues were, I dumped him. Now, over two years later, he contacts me, admits he is an alcoholic, tells me he has been sober for two years and wants to see me again. I don't want to be conned yet again, but he was funny, intelligent and a joy to be with when he was on his good behavior. Do people really change?
Signed,
Cares about an addict
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Dear Disenabler,
Some columnists might respond with a flippant remark such as, "Do you really care?" and suggest that being with a drinking, ...
